[Thespiritexpress] Community from Jack Kornfield
Toni Bernbaum
tonijean at mcn.org
Wed Mar 25 13:37:26 PDT 2026
When I lived in Woodacre I attended Spirit Rock meditation center frequently to meditate and listen to Jack share his amazing stories, guidance and beautiful wisdom.
On occasion, I would run into him at the post office, and he would greet me like a friend…….such a blessing…….
I thought this was particularly synchronistic, arriving in my in-box today since our discussion at “Sutras” on Tuesday included an unpacking of what is pain? What is growth?
Does the caterpillar suffer in its process to became a butterfly? And how do we hold the “suffering” together as we grow and transform?
With love and gratitude for our sweet community,
T
> Dear friends,
>
> A teacher once said, “If you think you can wake up without breaking open, you’re mistaken.”
>
> Growth is not polite.
> Truth is not always gentle.
> And transformation often hurts.
>
> But it hurts like birth hurts.
> Like muscles growing hurt.
> Like a heart opening wider than it ever has before.
>
> We don’t heal alone.
>
> Even when we think we must.
>
> Almost every great turning in your life involved another human being—someone who listened, someone who stayed, someone who did not turn away when you were afraid.
>
> We are not meant to carry everything by ourselves.
> We are meant to carry one another.
>
> It doesn’t mean we fix each other.
> It means we refuse to abandon one another.
>
> When you walk through grief and someone sits beside you, you are changed.
> When you face uncertainty and someone lights a candle, you are changed.
>
> This is what community means:
> Not agreement.
> Not sameness.
> But shared courage.
>
> We are not as strong alone as we are together.
>
> That is not sentimental.
> That is survival.
> That is love.
>
> With metta,
> Jack
>
>
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