[Thespiritexpress] Sending love

[Shawn Carolan-Abell]

Dear Riantee,
Oh my heart goes out to you all of you.
Although I am so glad to hear you are at Howard and the
hospital is the best I'll be sending love and prayers for
you all to get through these challenges and overwhelming
decisions.
I pray Charles is out of pain and that when you can sleep it's
deep and restful. Thank you for keeping us updated.
Sending much love,
Shawn and Abe





On 2025-01-08 10:53 am, Lydia Rand via Thespiritexpress wrote:
> Dear friends.
> Many have been inquiring and sending support.
> I don’t know if you know that Charles fell getting out of bed
> yesterday and has a spiral fracture in the femur. He was transported
> by ambulance to the hospital in Willits. My daughter Tatyana and I are
> with him, they put two beds for us in his room.
> It’s the best hospital I have never been into, great big rooms with
> large windows, beautiful young nurses, amazingly personable and
> friendly, excellent food, a great garden and an exercise walk a
> stream.
> 
> We now are waiting to see if Charles will have surgery between 11:00
> and 12:00.
> If he does he could possibly walk after therapy, if not he will never
> walk again.
> 
> He does not want that. He is ready to go. He just told me that we
> might have little time left together, we both cried. The first time
> since the accident that I accessed my feelings.
> I am in a sort of daze, absent, calm, detached, not relating to
> anything, anyone, just watching it all as if I were not there.
>  Extremely tired. Wishing to crawl into a corner and fall asleep
> forever…
> . . .and all those decisions to make, living will, last directives,
> insurance, rest home for a while or going home with therapy, signing
> paper, resuscitation during surgery or not, listening to endless
> medical explanations, possibilities, and on and on. All those
> decisions I cannot make!
> Fortunately Tatyana is taking it on, an angel of wisdom and
> composure.,
> We may be here for another week.
> Thank you again for your support and prayers
> One thing I feel is the love in my heart for all of you.
> Riantee
> 
> .
> 
>> On Jan 8, 2025, at 7:39 AM, lvice at comcast.net wrote:
>> 
>> Riantee and Charles ~ feeling the heaviness and worries about the
>> fall and all the decisions, big and little, that come with it.
>> Holding you in my heart and praying for peace and comfort for both
>> of you.
>> 
>> Much love,
>> ~£yn
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