[Thespiritexpress] Oasis needs some help ~~~ Up date ~~ The End Of The Journey

[D. Sangraal]

Thank you Dear Lydia for this vivid description
and thank you to all who are loving Oasis home.
Blessings,
Dyana


On Wed, Aug 4, 2021 at 9:30 PM Lydia Ruby Shepard via Thespiritexpress <
thespiritexpress at lists.mcn.org> wrote:

> Hello Everyone,
>
> Thought you might like to know that Oasis is resting so comfortably and
> peacefully, covered by a warm blanket, breathing effortlessly. Candy Cole,
> Oasis' special friend, was lying beside him on top of the covers.  She
> knows how he likes to be tucked in, have his hands massaged, and she talks
> so easily with him when he becomes aware of her presence--she can make him
> smile.  He is clearly liking the serene atmosphere she brings with her
> light and joyful spirit.  He asked for water, and Candy gave him some from
> a straw, cautioning him not to drink too much.  Serena, Oasis' daughter,
> had said that she is in favor of giving him anything he asks for.  She left
> a while ago and Candy told me she plans to be back Sunday.
>
> Oasis recognized me as he looked out from his half-closed eyes and called
> me by name.  I was amazed at how good his coloring is and how relaxed he
> looks.  Hospice was there today, took his blood pressure and I gather they
> will be back next week.  Edward was taking a much needed break with his
> friends for a couple of hours.  The peaceful silence was broken by the
> phone ringing, and it was Alene checking on her and Riantee's time to sit
> with Oasis tomorrow.
>
> Candy and I were saying to each other how glad we are that Oasis life was
> celebrated by his many friends and family, and to have his friends support
> his choice to leave his body now.  We were wishing that we could be so
> blessed with friends and family around us when it is our turn to go.
>
> *Everybody* I talked to is so very appreciative to the group of friends
> who dreamed, and who were able to put it all together for Oasis, and for
> us.  Amazing how you exquisitely lovely people pulled it off and treated us
> to delicious pizzas to boot!  Thank you!
>
> With love,
>
> Lydia
> ------------------------------
> *From:* thespiritexpress-bounces at lists.mcn.org <
> thespiritexpress-bounces at lists.mcn.org> on behalf of Riantee Rand via
> Thespiritexpress <thespiritexpress at lists.mcn.org>
> *Sent:* Tuesday, August 3, 2021 9:54 AM
> *To:* Ron Nadeau <ron at spirithousehealing.org>;
> thespiritexpress at lists.mcn.org <thespiritexpress at lists.mcn.org>
> *Subject:* Re: [Thespiritexpress] Oasis needs some help ~~~ Up date ~~
> The End Of The Journey
>
> Alene and I are scheduled for Thursday at 9:30 but I could possibly spend
> the night that night.
> Shall i arrange it with Edward?
> xoxo
> Riantee
>
>
> On Aug 1, 2021, at 22:41, Ron Nadeau via Thespiritexpress <
> thespiritexpress at lists.mcn.org> wrote:
>
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>
>
> Dear Community ~~~~  All this has come up rather quickly since the
> “Celebration of Life” i.e. “Living Memorial” for Oasis~!!!  Oasis is now
> preparing to leave his body and continue his journey...
> ~~~~~ Thank you everyone that attended the Oasis “Living Memorial
> Gathering” at the Caspar Center last Thursday ~ It was a wonderful honoring
> event for Oasis and a true representation of living in a community of
> loving support when needs arise~.
>
>  ~ Right now Oasis is resting comfortably as he has entered into his
> end-of-life phase ~~~~~ he has stopped drinking water and is no longer
> eating~.  He is at home as are his wishes and he is being cared for by
> Edward Carter and our community members ~~~~ the past two days have been
> very much involved in getting him settled and comfortable per his
> end-of-life "5 wishes” ~~ several people in including myself came to meet
> the challenges but more help is needed for the near term ~ most likely
> Oasis will leave his body in the next 5 days at some point:
>
> ~ Although Edward is a house mate with Oasis ~ Edward / Oasis need help~.
> Here is what is needed:
>
> 1. Someone to *coordinate volunteers* for sitting with Oasis ~ in 1 or 2
> hr. shifts (or more) Pls. contact me A.S.A.P.
>
> 2. Someone willing to spend the night if possible (I over-nighted on the
> couch last night with my sleeping bag)
>
> 3. If anyone would like to pay last respects to Oasis ~ the next few days
> would be the best~.
>
> 4. We are asking that everyone that visits or sits with Oasis pls. speak
> quietly as Oasis is very sensitive to moderate and loud voices & sounds~.
> He may not be communicative~.
>
> ~~~ Maggie Watson is also coordinating with hospice and health care~.
>
> *~~~~*
> *MONDAY*
> *immediate Need*
>
> ~ Until we have a COORDINATOR ~~~~~ Pls. call Edward if you can help
> tomorrow ~ Nice if you can stay for a min. of 2 hr. ~ Oasis land line
> 964-5378 ~~ Edward’s cell (text is best) 357-5125 ~~ Ron Nadeau 961-0776
>
> ~ Oasis family has requested that people call before arriving to arrange a
> time for a visitation~.
>
> ~~ Only Love, ~Ron
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